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Chances are, if you have stumbled upon this page – or this blog – you are struggling with same-sex attractions. I’m glad you found us. But one thing you need to understand right off the bat: we’re not here to change you. Sure, we hope you one day change your mind about acting upon your same-sex attractions, but that’s not our sole purpose for being here. Rather, the purpose of this page, of this blog/ministry, is to help steer you towards the One who can transform you through His truth and presence: Christ.
See, it’s all about Him. It’s not about us. And it’s definitely not about our sexualities. It’s all about Him: how He transforms us through His work and our response to His grace.
Below are some testimonies from us who have been where you are right now. Read them with an open mind and heart; be open to what God stirs within you. Following these stories are other articles and books that might be of use to you, if you are looking for help in overcoming same-sex attractions.
You may disagree with what’s here, and that’s ok. Again, we’re not here to convince you. We’re here to present Christ and His truth. What you determine about it is up to you.
Encouragement from those who have been where you are:
- Shawn: of redemption and growth.
- Ron: living a life of celibacy.
- Dennis: a new creation in Christ.
- One man’s journey in true healing.
- Other stories
Help for the journey ahead:
- Who you are in Christ
- The true meaning of “change”
- Fighting for Freedom
- Finding God’s Joy in Temptation
- Rethinking the label “ex-gay”
- Cheated by the Affirming (pro-gay) Church

Hi! My name is Jessica. Im 13. Ive recently told my youth director that im bi. I didnt know how to tell him. He gave me Shawns testimony today. I just got done reading it. I thought id come and vistit your website. I think your Testimony was great.
Thanks Jessica. I’m glad your youth pastor was able to help you, and that you were able to open up to him. If either of you need further help, feel free to email me.
I would like to email you sometimes. I do have a couple of questions that i think you could help me with more than my youth minster would be able to. If you could email me that would be great (email address removed for privacy).